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THE IMPORTANCE OF ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTIONS AS A PARENT: In Light of the Apalachee High School Shooting

Authored by our content partners ProActive Response Group.

As a parent, we all want to ensure our children are safe no matter where they go. The reality of our society is that school shootings happen more often than we’d all like to believe, and the Apalachee High School shooting is no different. In light of this devastating event, we must face the reality that an act of violence can happen at any time, and preparedness is key. According to a 2019 analysis of school shootings by the Secret Service, there is “no profile of a student attacker, nor is there a profile for the type of school that has been targeted.”

“Attackers varied in age, gender, race, grade level, academic performance, and social characteristics. … Attackers usually had multiple motives, the most common involving a grievance with classmates.”

That means no school is completely immune to the possibility of an act of violence.

But at ProActive Response Group, we don’t want to frighten you. We want to instill preparedness and empowerment, not fear.

As a parent, few concerns weigh more heavily than your child’s safety, especially in today’s unpredictable world. Schools, long considered sanctuaries for education, have seen rising concerns around safety and security. Whether it’s physical safety from violence, mental health concerns, or bullying, parents need to be proactive. Asking the right questions about your child’s school environment is crucial in ensuring their well-being. The tragic school shooting at Apalachee High School in Winder, Georgia, serves as a grim reminder of why parental involvement and vigilance matter.

The Role of Parents in School Safety

While schools have policies and procedures in place to protect students, parents are a critical part of the equation. By actively engaging with educators, administrators, and their children, parents can help create a safer, more secure learning environment. The right questions can not only provide peace of mind but can also reveal gaps in school safety protocols.

Schools can be reluctant to discuss certain safety details, especially when it involves sensitive information about security plans. However, as a parent, knowing that your child’s school is prepared for emergencies is essential. When parents ask questions, they encourage schools to remain vigilant and continually assess their preparedness for potential threats, including active shooter scenarios, bullying, and mental health crises.

Key Questions to Ask About School Safety

  1. What is the school’s emergency response plan?

This is the first and most important question parents should ask. Every school should have a comprehensive emergency response plan that includes protocols for fire drills, lockdowns, evacuations, and other emergencies, including active shooters. Understanding these plans and how often the school reviews them will give you an idea of how prepared the administration is to act quickly in a crisis.

Additionally, ask how often these drills are practiced and whether students receive any education on emergency procedures. Regular drills ensure that students, teachers, and staff know what to do in a crisis, potentially saving lives.

  1. How does the school communicate with parents during an emergency?

A lack of timely communication can heighten anxiety during an emergency situation. Knowing how the school will inform parents—whether via text, phone, or email—about safety issues is crucial. Ask if there is a designated point of contact for parents during crises and what the protocol is for releasing students after an emergency has occurred.

Timely and clear communication can prevent panic and confusion. By understanding the school’s communication strategies, you will be better equipped to react appropriately should an emergency arise.

  1. What mental health resources are available to students?

School safety isn’t just about preventing physical harm; it also involves addressing students’ mental and emotional well-being. With the increasing number of mental health issues among young people, parents should inquire about the availability of counseling services and mental health professionals at the school. Are there enough counselors for the student population? How is emotional well-being monitored, and what support is available for students dealing with trauma, anxiety, or depression?

According to the Secret Service analysis, most attackers had experienced psychological, behavioral, or developmental symptoms; half of the attackers had interests in violent topics; all attackers experienced social stressors involving their relationships with their peers and/or romantic partners; most attackers were victims of bullying, which was often observed by others; most attackers had a history or school disciplinary actions, and many had prior contact with law enforcement; and nearly every attacker experienced negative home life factors.

Early intervention can prevent potential crises, whether related to a student’s personal struggles or a conflict that could escalate into violence. Schools should have programs in place to support students’ emotional and psychological needs, making them feel safe and understood.

  1. How does the school prevent and address bullying?

Bullying remains a pervasive issue in schools and can significantly affect a child’s mental health and sense of safety. Ask about the school’s anti-bullying policies, how they handle reported incidents, and what measures are in place to prevent bullying in the first place. Schools should have clear reporting processes, and students must feel comfortable coming forward without fear of retaliation.

It’s also important to understand how the school fosters a positive environment where students feel supported by peers and teachers alike. A strong anti-bullying culture can help mitigate potential conflicts and create a more inclusive, safer space for learning.

  1. What security measures are in place at the school?

With rising concerns about school shootings, physical security is a growing priority. Parents should ask about the measures schools have in place to prevent unauthorized access to the campus. Is there a single point of entry? Are doors locked during school hours? Is there surveillance, and are there security personnel on site?

The shooting at Apalachee High School highlighted the importance of preparedness and the need for proper security measures to be implemented in schools. In this tragic incident, a student opened fire, killing two teachers and two students and injuring at least nine others. Schools need to continually assess their security strategies to ensure they are up-to-date and effective in preventing such devastating events.

While no school can guarantee absolute safety, knowing that your child’s school takes security seriously and has updated protocols in place can provide a measure of reassurance.

The Aftermath of the Apalachee High School Shooting

The shooting at Apalachee High School in Winder, Georgia, shook the community and left parents and educators across the country reeling. Although there were efforts in place to maintain school safety, the tragedy underscored the unpredictable nature of such events and the need for ongoing vigilance.

This tragedy serves as a stark reminder that safety is never a one-time conversation. It requires continual assessment, communication, and collaboration between parents, students, and schools to ensure the safest environment possible.

Staying Engaged in Your Child’s Safety

In addition to asking questions, parents should stay engaged in their child’s school experience. Attend PTA meetings, volunteer, and maintain open lines of communication with teachers and administrators. Regularly talk with your child about their feelings regarding school safety, bullying, or any concerns they may have.

Creating a culture of safety and awareness begins at home. By staying involved, asking the right questions, and demanding transparency from schools, parents can play a key role in ensuring their children remain safe and secure in their educational environment.

In the end, the goal is not to instill fear, but to promote preparedness and vigilance, helping schools become safer for all students.

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